CHBIt Would Help if Infidelity Was Treated Like AbuseThe question of whether infidelity is abuse can be debated and I’m not convinced that cheating, in and of itself is abuse, either emotional…3 min read·Apr 22, 2024--15--15
CHBMy Work and Observations with Infidelity Support GroupsFor the past 1 1/2 years I have been serving as a small group leader for couples working through infidelity. The therapist is not part of…3 min read·Jan 27, 2024--2--2
CHBI live in Cape Coral FL and I met Ian Part 1/3I’ll start by saying I’m not from Florida and moved here earlier in 2022, and I state that upfront so you get this “first time” feel that…3 min read·Dec 11, 2022--3--3
CHBMy Christian Therapist Mentioned the F-word and I got Defensive, Part 3/3Consider this scenario:2 min read·Jun 25, 2022--4--4
CHBMy Christian Therapist Mentioned the F-word and I got Defensive, Part 2/3I disagree that forgiveness, at least biblically, is a gift of release for the offended. My position is that forgiveness is a gift of grace…3 min read·Feb 26, 2022--9--9
CHBDon’t Apologize for My Feelings!A quick detour on my next writing, I wanted to share about a book I’m reading that really spoke to me about the dynamic between Wife and I.1 min read·Feb 7, 2022--8--8